Ready to become the secure, confident woman in your relationships?
I help sensitive, capable women heal the anxious + defensive patterns that sabotage love, so you can feel grounded in yourself and confident in building relationships that actually feel secure.
If any of this is you, you’re in the right place
You shut down, go cold, or people-please when you’re triggered, then feel ashamed after.
You feel “too much” when you start to care, and judge yourself for needing reassurance.
You become clingy or distant, and your relationships turn into push/pull dynamics.
You keep choosing emotionally unavailable or inconsistent men… then try to “win” secure love.
You stay in control because softness feels exposed, but it leaves you feeling guarded and alone.
You settle for breadcrumbs or ignore red flags because being alone feels scarier than being unmet.
Start here. Choose what you need most right now.
Start with the step that feels most urgent today.
I want to feel safe and calm within myself.
Stop living in your head and start feeling steady again
Learn how to regulate your nervous system (without forcing positivity)
Feel anchored, clear, and emotionally solid.
I want safe, secure, passionate LOVE.
Stop defensive fights and painful relationship cycles.
Heal your attachment wounds to feel deeply connected.
Attract and build relationships that feel truly secure
Testimonials
“Life changing. The transformation I have had after working with Della, now on two occasions have been phenomenal. Della is truly gifted in her coaching and has helped me level up in so many aspects of my life. Not only during coaching, but the skills I have taken away each time to help support myself beyond.”
— Rheanna
"I was stuck in my own head, constantly overthinking and doubting myself. Working with Della completely changed the way I see myself. Now I set boundaries, speak up for what I need, and finally feel like I’m living in alignment with who I truly am."
— Sarah
"Della’s coaching genuinely changed everything for me. I went from feeling invisible to feeling confident, and in control of my life. Della has this incredible way of making you feel seen and supported—I can’t thank her enough!"
– Emma
"Honestly, I was terrified to spend money on myself, but it ended up being the best thing I’ve ever done. For the first time, I’m living in alignment with my values and building relationships that actually reflect my worth. It’s been such a game-changer."
– Jessica
“If you’re struggling with self image, self-confidence and self-worth and haven't been able to find the guidance you’re looking for, see Della. She pays attention to your specific issues, helps you pinpoint what’s keeping you stuck and unblocks it.”
– Brodie
“I've experienced changes within myself internally, but other people have noticed too. My walking, talking, and posture have improved. The way I speak is a lot flowier. I am more laid back and less on edge. I also have a sense of belonging that I have never felt before. I don't feel like an outcast anymore.”
– Nicole
We were on the brink of breaking up. Now we are more intimate than ever. This saved my relationship."
— MIA
MEET YOUR GUIDE
Hi, I’m Della—I help sensitive, capable women heal the anxious and defensive patterns that sabotage love, so they can build secure, fulfilling relationships..
I know exactly what it feels like to look strong on the outside but feel lost, anxious, or "too much" in love on the inside.
I used to overgive, silence my needs, and stay in relationships I knew weren't right, all while secretly wondering if I was just "too much" or "not enough."
But I discovered this wasn't a personal failing. It was a sign of a nervous system and attachment blueprint that needed repair. Once I healed my own foundation, everything changed.
Now, over the past 6+ years, I've guided hundreds of women to do the same: to break their painful cycles, let go of misaligned love, and finally feel safe, seen, and securely chosen in their relationships.
“I went from constantly doubting myself to setting boundaries, speaking my truth, and finally attracting the love I deserve. Working with Della changed everything.” — Sarah
Unsure which path is right for you?
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FREE — RELATIONSHIP CLARITY GUIDE
Get clear on what you want so you stop settling for what you don’t.
THIS GUIDE IS FOR YOU IF
You don’t know what you truly want in a relationship
You want a relationship that meets your emotional needs
You change yourself to make the relationship work
This guide helps you:
Get clear on your real needs, values, and vision for relationships
Define your non-negotiables and must-haves in love
Clarify what aligned, nourishing love actually looks like for you
Includes 80 self-inquiry prompts to define your desires, needs, values, and standards in love.